In my opinion, no wiser words have ever been spoken.
Many of us have greatly benefited from a teacher or coach who dispensed advice that struck a chord with us, that may have impacted our life in a very positive way. Such was the case with Geoffrey during his days at Palisades High School.
Varsity Head Coach Jason Blatt was addressing his football team. Out of his mouth came the admonition, “Don’t lie to yourself!” I wasn’t there but since I’ve been in a “few” team meetings over the course of my athletic career, I can imagine the circumstance. A player was called out for missing an assignment, failing to make a tackle or something of similar nature . . . and then denied the action and/or made an excuse. Doing so will trigger the ire of any coach.
Most of us know when we’ve done something wrong, so when excuses are delivered instead of acceptance and a demonstration of regret, we’ve effectively lied, to the coach in this instance, . . . and to ourselves. This is even more galling for a coach if part of a film session. The film doesn’t lie.
This lesson is universal, applicable to every aspect of our lives. For Geoffrey, he’s carried this advice with him ever since and has referenced it many times during his radio and TV appearances. Although maybe hard for him to accept emotionally, he’s always admitted that his bro Mitchell was the better football player. And as he’s transitioned to his next career in the world of media and broadcast where he’s found a niche in the burgeoning industry of sports betting, he’s been the first to admit those instances where he incorrectly evaluated a team or player.
Parents teaching the value of being vulnerable and accepting responsibility for one’s actions is a wonderful gift to instill in their aspiring athletes.